It will be difficult, but yes, eventually, you are going to manage to leave a lot of the fear, pain, and confusion behind you. For some, it’s hard to begin healing immediately, and it can be all there is, for a long time. But eventually, it does get better, and the days get brighter. Other times, for some men and women, it seems easier to make goals and get organised; telling yourself that you’re going to be fine in such and such amount of time just isn’t practical. Allow yourself all the time you need to heal; don’t force yourself to be “over it” in a week, or two weeks. Grieve; it’s natural.